A colleague at work confided in me that her partner does not want a lodger moving in with them. She needs the money (its her house) and the lodger is due to move in at the end of January. The lodger is also our work collegue and has no idea her partner feels this way. I told her she needed to tell the lodger how her partner feels. She disagrees and I know she wont tell him. Should I tell him? If it goes belly up and he finds out I knew I think he would be upset with me.