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To think my 5 year old hates me?

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Bazingabong · 18/12/2019 20:47

My DD is 5 and loves nothing more than to hit, kick, bite and head butt me. She laughs when she does it and it always seems to be seeking a reaction. I do a firm "No ... that hurts and makes mummy sad" then immediately walk away/stop what we are doing. It's only me she does it too. I can't help feel she is doing it deliberately to hurt me?

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KarmaStar · 18/12/2019 21:13

Of course she doesn't hate you!
She loves you unconditionally.
It could be behaviour she's seen at school?by not reacting you are doing the right thing.hopefully it is just a phase.
But she will always love you.🌻🌻

Londongirl86 · 18/12/2019 21:17

When my nearly five year old laughs when she knows she's doing wrong It's an attention thing! She doesn't hurt me. But she will try and defy me to get a reaction. Especially if I'm trying to get things done at home. She will smirk when I'm shouting. Then I realise no matter how mad I get she won't stop. I try handle it differently now. I'm firm and fair. I try spend abit of time with her. She was like this on Saturday. Annoying me and her dad being silly. I had to be a boring mum as I sorted her room and was trying to wrap things for Christmas. Anyway I took her to her room and we played a game together, read some books and built a house with stickle bricks. She was an angel for me!

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