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Gymbud · 06/12/2019 12:20

I was at the gym yesterday with my DP, the personal trainer walked past me, said hello, I said hi, DP went mad at me because i apparently flicked my hair and smiled whilst I said hi and that means I was trying to flirt with him.
I touch my hair a lot, it's long and it was in my face as I usually have a hair tie on my wrist for the gym but I'd forgotten it so I was moving it back not flicking it in a flirtatious way!
I hardly ever talk to or make eye contact with the opposite sex because I'm frightened of him flipping out.
Today at the gym the PT tried to make eye contact to say hi, out my head down and ignored him even though my DP wasnt there and I realised that it's not ok for him to make me feel this way is it?

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Gymbud · 06/12/2019 17:27

I am a very smiley person by nature and he always thinks im flirting..usually if I fancy someone I cant speak to them without going red never mind flirt.
I'm loving my new independence and I think he resents that I have the freedom which I've not had for about 7 years.

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Scotsrule · 06/12/2019 19:40

Have a look at rattle snake by the open clasp theatre company. It’s free online until 10th December.

It’s about coercive control, pretty eye opening stuff

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