Just a quick post to say thanks to the posters who posted on my thread (DH has flipped out help) last night.
I'm sorry I didn't respond. Things escalated a little and I forgot about mumsnet and it was a long and stressful night.
We are all fine. DH has promised to go to the GP this week. We discussed everything. We are a solid, committed couple and he is a normally wonderful DH and husband (this a completely out of character episode)
Thanks everyone and sorry for not replying sooner, I know it is frustrating sometimes when the OP disappears. Thanks for your advice and concern etc.. I really appreciate it.
Sorry again for lack of response and thank you for your responses. I have read them all and some are extremely helpful and one or two (about potential diabetes / heart probs other health concerns - queenrollo especially thanks) very helpful and ring true and DH is definitely going to the GP.
(I probably won't respond to this thread - just creating it to say thanks as the old thread is now pages in and unlikely anyone will read it)