I'm planning a christening/ naming ceremony in the country I've moved to for my 1 year old. There are family back home who I KNOW would not travel for this (it's quite short notice as my DH has suddenly decided he wants one for our LO). AIBU if I don't invite family I know can't afford to make the trip (a couple of hundred pounds each) or who just won't come for other reasons (fear of flying, etc)?