Am I being unreasonable having an afair?

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I sympathize with all parties here. There is obviously a problem in the marriage if that person is meeting other people for sexual relations.
All parties here may not be aware of the situation. Everyone is kept in the dark!

Who is to blame? Is there blame? or is it a mixture of miscommunication, growing apart, maybe not enough time with your partner?

The person who initiates the affair needs to be honest with themselves!!!

What do other people think?????

Erm, yes, YABU. Did you not listen to your marriage vows? Or were they just the bit before the party?

lots of threads about affairs tonight?

an affair solves totally nothing. if you have a a consiceince (sp) and a heart it really really only does your head in.

What's an 'afair'?

Is the missing 'f' supposed to be ironic?

indeed..

Blokes that have an affair just want their cake and eat it. That don't want to shag their wife at home because she does all the boring crap like cooking, cleaning and looking after the kids. They want a bit of totty on the side that does jack all day but sit in the sauna, on the sunbed, has their hair and nails done and actually has the time to shave their legs.

Married women that have affairs must be high on drugs or something, I have enough trouble doing the business once a month with my man let alone servicing another bloke as well.

Very true Pan. 2 f's a relationship do not make!

If this afair ends your relationship No, yanbu.

If you tell your dp, no, yanbu.

Otherwise, yabu.

I just spat diet coke everywhere.
That was the funniest thing ever!!
Obviously not the affair (solemn and disappointed there), but the f.
PMSL still!!