AIBU to ask for help with a baby shower gift idea?

[BadAuntie]

I'm a terrible auntie who is NC/low contact with family members for various reasons.

However I'd like to get something for DN. She's having a girl and it's her first. I have no clue what to get, I'll never be a mum and I don't know what to choose.

I hate the idea of a baby shower but I realise it's not about me or what I'd do. AIBU to ask for your help with ideas? TIA.

A couple of these giant muslins? Pretty, a bit different, useful

bumble-babies.co.uk/

As above, muslins are super useful. A lovely soft warm baby blanket is also a nice idea. Something for the mum is nice too. Perhaps a nice hand cream or a voucher for a pregnancy massage.

Thanks for replies. I'd not have thought of these items that's helpful. Right, now I need to choose which ones!! They're all cute.

My favourite gift is a star wrap from tuppence and crumble