Sleeping with another woman

[Dratthat]

Husband decided he wanted a separation in the summer .he has been absent for years both physically and emotionally with me and the kids . While I am over the initial
Shock of it all I now find that he is more than likely having a relationship . He comes and goes as he pleases while we wait for our property to vacate for us to separate formally. For some reason, I don’t actually care about the other woman.Is there something wrong with me? Perhaps I’m
Numb . Any experience of this please?

Maybe that’s what it is . The kids are distraught. I don’t give a shit about him but am angry in behalf of
Kids. Respect left the table a long time ago. I did worry that I was still numb or in shock or something and that it would all come crashing down once we split formally .