We agreed a week ago to make a concentrated effort to find some builders to get a quote for an extension. Part of the should we move- shall we extend debate - ongoing for years. On my very limited time off I phoned loads of suggestions from friends, neighbours. When he said 2nite lets get on with it - i'm fed up with this mess- i said i've found one around - willing to give a quote. Are all DH/ DPs the same - do they all think WE means You ... you will do this, you will find this....?