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AIBU to ask for your help in finding a wedding venue?!

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ConkerGame · 18/09/2019 14:55

DP and I are struggling to find a venue for our wedding next Sept/Oct. So many places are booked up already! Can the MN hive mind help us in our quest?!

We live in London so don’t want anything crazy far away to avoid people having to travel too far but also wouldn’t want central London. Ideally it would be in Surrey/Berkshire/Middlesex/Buckinghamshire/Oxfordshire/Wiltshire/Somerset as these should be the easiest counties for our guests to travel to (none live east).

We are inviting 150 guests, are looking to have a sit down meal followed by dancing and want somewhere that at least immediate family and the bridal party could stay on site/very nearby.

We would also prefer a church wedding but don’t want to cart everyone for miles so ideally a pretty church would be nearby.

Our budget is £25k all in so I think venue hire, food and daytime drinks budget is around £17k. We are also only interested in a Saturday wedding (this seems to be the thing that is causing us difficulty atm but too many people would be annoyed if we put it on a week day!)

In terms of vibe, we are hoping for somewhere pretty but not too “grand”, although tbh my searching so far suggests that our budget removes us from most grand venues anyway. We would be happy with a marquee as long as the venue sorted food, drinks etc and we could stay onsite - we wouldn’t be up for just hiring a field and then having to find all suppliers separately.

Can anyone help?! Thanks very much in advance!

OP posts:
SillyMoomin · 09/12/2020 15:01

Just browsing through wedding threads (sorry for restarting an old one!) but was just curious what happened OP - obviously you were planning for a wedding this year and then.... covid :(

Hope you got to have a lovely day wherever you chose Flowers

FraughtwithGin · 09/12/2020 15:23

Ufton Court near Reading has a beautiful, old barn for wedding receptions. I went to a wedding there a couple of years ago. The food was very good, too. Downside is lack of accommodation, although there are plenty of places to stay nearby, but transport will be required.
The Elvetham Hotel at Hartley Wintney is also a beautiful place for a reception, lovely gardens/grounds. Hotel is pleasant. There is a church on site, but sadly it is derelict, although, again, there should be something suitable close at hand.

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