I totally understand as dating can be scary.
Go over to the Relationships board where there is a long-standing Dating thread.
Have a look at some dating apps & sites - my friends & me use Tinder & Plenty of Fish.
They are free. I do know people who've had long term relationships, marriage & children or even just been on some enjoyable dates with these sites.
If you're going to do OLD (online dating) you need some good photos of yourself, a short bio & to be aware of how to keep yourself safe when dating.
Meeting for a short coffee at first is probably best.
Look at other ways to meet men too - eg your local gym can be a good place - try classes that will be mixed such as HIIT, circuits, running club etc
There are local singles groups & social groups in my area, maybe there are near you as well.
Facebook can be another place to meet men eg through local interest groups such as local photography groups or political groups, or through reconnecting with old schoolmates etc
It's really hard to start off with, personally I get very nervous before dates!
I met a guy in a singles group who fell in love with me after just the third date & was continuously texting but I felt it was too much & ended it.
So I'm taking a short break from dating for now....