I have spent a lot of time/effort/but not excessive amounts of cash, but in the hope that I might prevoke a reaction!!! Tonight I said that over the last couple of months I was hoping he would notice, his response was that it doesn't matter what I wear WFT!!!!!!! SO i have gone to bed in a huge pair of slumber shorts and an xxxl t shirt, and there he was moaning that we din't hav enought sex!!!!!