Ok so I was wondering how people would go on with their neighbors talking/shouting over yr fence?
Back story, I don’t get on with one neighbor after she started causing trouble and police constantly calling at the house. Now dealing drugs. Very toxic person but tries to come over all sweetness and nice.
The other side always been ok with but recently started being funny (toxic neighbor goes out of her way to talk to them) mainly because no one else will entertain her. Anyway he started saying we had stolen his land and a tree we had cut down was his. This caused me to contact the council as his is council house and also got deeds out and spoke to bloke we bought the house off who confirmed he followed the boundary line and came more to our side as he had built a shed on the boundary line.
So what I want to know is aibu In the fact I don’t want them talking over my fence when I’m in house with door open or in the garden.
I think it’s rude and disrespectful, also wondered if after all the trouble they have caused in the past if they were trying to gord/intimidate me?
If I’m out it’s not an issue but when we’re home it’s something you wouldn’t do.
Also guy thought I’d kicked other half out? Which I hadn’t??? So thinking he’s tried to intimidate me thinking I’m a woman on my own as there has never been an issue when he thought he still lived here. Other half works away so no car in week.