Boyfriend won't stop talking to ex ?

[Missmayor21]

I was with my partner 7 year 2 kids, he left me said he didn't love me anymore but I found out he had been talking as friends to a girl at work for a year and 2 week after he left he was in a relationship with this girl.

Anyway he decided 4 week later he wanted to try with me instead but live separate but he's still on face time and constantly messaging the girl it's everyday at least 15 times and told me that's not going to stop because they are good friends.

I'm a mess do I let them be good friends or am I being a mug ? Apparently they loved each other but how 4 week ?

Leave and stay gone. He wants his cake and to eat it too.

Leave him. You are worth so much more than this.

Walk away. He's using you and taking the piss.

I wouldn't be surprised if she's ended it and he's still trying to get in there. You're his next best option, but the minute she looks like she'll take him back, he'll be off.

You're being a mug.

They knew each other 4 weeks. If you really mattered to him, he would easily leave behind a 4 week "friendship" for his wife of 7 years.

Make him an ex, and keep it like that

He’s taking the piss.

You’re worth more than this!

This is a man who wants his home comforts and a wifey (you) to provide them, while he chases other women for sex. It's a pattern. Sort out the practicalities and get rid of him.

Kick him to the kerb- he’s taking the piss. You are worth so much more than this.

I too think she dumped him so went running back to you. How could he even think it's ok to carry on with contact with her after everything his done. He is a massive piss taker who doesn't give a shit about how you feel imo

Yea I new myself I was being the mug I'm not standing for it this girl only 25 with 4 kids he's nearly 40. I think he's trying keep me sweet for our girls but I'm not being 2nd best to nobody you all just confirmed it for me

Add insult to injury I got him the job we're he met her

And I do believe if I ended it now he be back with her straight away think he's just felt like he needed try for kids but I don't work that way and I'm not being in a triangle

Don’t be a doormat. Dump him!

You're only a mug if you let him treat you like one OP, thankfully you've not moved back in with eachother so it makes things less complicated. Respect yourself and your kids and move on from that asshole

Sounds like he's still with her now!