I (22F) Have been engaged to DP (25M) for 6 months but I feel like he's changed since travelling abroad for work. He went to eastern Europe for a month for his job as a clerk and during that time he barely messaged me, told me what he was up to etc. Says he was working. Surely he couldn't be working day&night every day??? Since getting back he has been really odd. Looks and acts older, barely speaks, never wants to go out and do anything. Tried asking him about work trip but he ignores me. Since he went away I've been staying with BFF and she's lovely but a bit wrapped up in herself and not v helpful. Plus, she keeps going out at night (no idea where) and I worry about her.
And know I'm going to get loads of awful comments for this because MN but there might be an OM in my life. I met this stranger the other day and although I know it sounds totally mad I just connected with him in a way I never really have with DP. I haven't acted on it but DP is being so uncommunicative and I'm feeling v lonely. DP has also started hanging out with these weird men and I don't want to be too judgemental but there is one guy in particular who I really really hate. He is Dutch and a bit smelly. Proper intense and keeps going on about occult stuff. Am worried DP is joining a cult???? What should I do?