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To ask for my money back?

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OchMumItsJustMaBow · 10/08/2019 17:13

Went to a new hairdresser yesterday (tried a few now to find one I like) and she has completely and utterly ruined my hair. I asked for blonde balayage (which I’ve had before and really liked) and I’ve ended up with this.

My DP says it’s ‘not that bad’ but I beg to differ! It’s patchy, orange and awful. I didn’t realise how awful it was until my colleague asked what had happened to my hair and took a photo to show me! I’ve messaged the hairdresser with photos attached to say I’m not happy. WIBU to ask for it to be fixed by a more senior stylist or for my money back?

To ask for my money back?
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Cocobean30 · 10/08/2019 18:28

Definitely go straight to the manager and show her the rude and u professional message the hairdresser sent.

OchMumItsJustMaBow · 10/08/2019 18:28

@CottonSock you’re more than welcome to it!

I paid £60 for the balayage, same as I’ve paid elsewhere.

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Cocobean30 · 10/08/2019 18:29

If the manager fails to refund you and/or fix your hair AND apologise profusely make sure you leave a terrible review. It’s a disgrace that the hairdresser would blame your hair, any decent hairdresser would be mortified as you are a walking advertisement for their work.

Deemail · 10/08/2019 18:30

I'm sorry to say but it looks awful. It's like a lot of your strands of hair have 3 possibly 4 different colours in them, do I see pink tones on the right of the first picture?

Sianlouise432 · 10/08/2019 18:36

Did she put a toner on it as well? The ends look weirdly ashy and the rest golden/warm

OchMumItsJustMaBow · 10/08/2019 18:43

Yeah, after putting more bleach on my already level 9 bleached ends! Then a toner which has grabbed on the overbleached ends and turned them almost blue.

She’s grudgingly said she’ll fix it but I don’t want her anywhere near my hair again Sad

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Cluelessbeetroot · 10/08/2019 18:47

I’d love to say Yes, go back! But I am in the same boat, I’ve been sulking since Wednesday and now I feel like it’s too late to go back or even say anything. I’ve paid £110 for some (specified and illustrated) subtle balayage type highlights and ended up with streaks of brassy blonde. Showed her a pic of what I wanted (fairly simple) and had the same answer “no problem”.
I considered sending them a message on SM but then again what good would that do. I’m even too much of a chicken to leave a public review.

MrsGrindah · 10/08/2019 18:54

You don’t have to make a fuss. I would ring and speak to the manager arranging a time when you can go in and show her. Then say you want their senior colourist to correct it and your money back please. All nice and polite with a smile but firm. However, personally, I wouldn’t want anyone to touch my hair in that salon ! So you might want to find someone else but definitely get your cash back.

MrsGrindah · 10/08/2019 18:54

Also do it ASAP...the longer you leave it the more get outs you give them

OchMumItsJustMaBow · 10/08/2019 18:56

I’ve replied to her saying I wouldn’t feel comfortable letting her fix it and that I would either like it put completely right by a senior stylist or my money back please. I’m finding the whole thing wildly uncomfortable as I’m so placid and non-confrontational Sad

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OchMumItsJustMaBow · 19/08/2019 13:25

Update! I phoned the salon when they opened on Tuesday and spoke to the manager. Went in Friday for them to ‘have a look’ and they were so appalled at the state of it that they fixed it for me there and then FOC. Looks much better now!

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ohtheholidays · 19/08/2019 13:47

Good for you OP for standing up for yourself!

The reply from the haidresser that did your hair was bloody appalling,I hope the manager had a word with her about good customer service and that they give her some more training because it sounds like she needs it.

ShirleyPhallus · 19/08/2019 13:49

Fab news! Can we see pics of the fixed hair?

timeforawine · 19/08/2019 13:53

Can we see a pic of the new hair :-)
Glad it got sorted and hopefully they'll re-train the original hairdresser!

summersherewishiwasnt · 19/08/2019 14:10

It’s patchy def I would want refund. Not redye. It could ruin your hair.

messolini9 · 19/08/2019 14:13

She’s replied to my message saying it’s not her fault my hair is so dark

& it's not your fault she failed to assess your hair colour properly, despite the consultation & a 3.5 hour process.

Even I know that's not balayage ffs. She should be embarrassed & apologetic. Good luck with the manager.

messolini9 · 19/08/2019 14:14

oh whoops, just seen last update - hurrah, & what a relief for you.

RhiWrites · 19/08/2019 14:17

Can I see a new photo of it fixed? I’m a bit confused by everyone saying it’s obviously wrong because I thought it looked alright.

HaileySherman · 19/08/2019 14:28

It doesn't look terrible OP, but if its not what you requested and paid for then eithrr they should fix it or refund you. And your hair being too dark? She's a HAIRDRESSER! A professional would know how to handle it.

OchMumItsJustMaBow · 19/08/2019 15:47

It’s still not 100% perfect as you can still see a band of a much lighter blonde where the first toner has grabbed but this should lighten with a couple of washes.

She also had to fix the cut because it looked like the first girl had been at it with a knife and fork.

To ask for my money back?
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Sparkletastic · 19/08/2019 15:58

That's 100% better - hurrah!

Luaa · 19/08/2019 16:13

So much better!

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