AIBU to hate the fact palm oil is in everything

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I try to clean eat as much as possible, bake and cook from scratch etc. Just bought my son a pack of sweets which I do once in a blue moon. A pack of fruit salads which I remember from my childhood. I was checking the ingredients to see if they were vegetarian so I could try one and they've got palm oil in. Even trying to avoid it (I don't buy chocolate etc) it seems I have :-(

It's about using responsible palm oil companies (which does exist) rather than just flat out avoiding it.

How do you know if its responsible or not? I don't want to have to say no to my children all the time

YANBU, it's in absolutely everything. Even our king's ransom for a thimble-full, picked under a full moon by virgins, organic peanut butter had it in it. Stupidly thought at the price it only had peanuts and grated gold in it. Grrrrrr.