Have been away to a European city, sitting in the square yesterday evening and on a table was a man who looked like Gary Glitter (sorry don't know his real name). One of the group commented on this, in what I felt was a flippant manner, saying "oh look I must take a photo of him and said it to my friends, they'll laugh at that" ...... why is that even funny?l, the man is beyond vile!
Anyway a little later the same woman said my phones dead could I borrow someone else's to take a photo and they can send it to me. I thought she meant of our group, when she got the phone she went to take a photo of this man, on my phone!
I categorically told her to stop and said that it was wrong on many levels, not least because you can't just take photos of strangers to ridicule or laugh at them.
She had a go at me, saying don't be so sensitive, touchy etc. The group said nothing.
Was IBU to say no, I would not be part of that?