I am recently separated from my H of 17 years. We have two DC and I am the primary caregiver. He sees them for two hours in the week and between 10-4.30 on a Saturday. He wants to swap his day at the weekend to give me more time with the DC and because he wants to see one DC play their sport. Both kids play football and as different ages we used to take one child each on a Sunday morning. His new plan involves taking the older DC to his match and he thinks I should take DC2 to his match and/ or church and then he will see them both for a few hours afterwards.
I think it is not reasonable as I feel he favours DC1 as he is older and easier to parent! Feels like every decision turns into a battle, but AIBU?!