Mil is always going on about how we need to consume less and become more sustainable for the sake of the planet, everytime we see her she talks about it. She is very materialistic though. She is always decorating a room in her house and buying new furniture. She also goes on about 3 holidays abroad each year. Having a gift free Christmas or gifts for children only at Christmas would not be acceptable to her. She sends gift lists of what she wants before Christmas and her birthday. She complains if we don't send gifts to people who don't send us birthday or Christmas gifts. She is always sending cards for something. AIBU to think this is a bit hypocritical?