I was in a cafe having lunch, and needed the loo. I could see the toilets from where I was sitting, they were down a little corridor. I got to toilets and tried the door( thinking it may have led to more loos IFSWIM) but it was engaged so I waited outside. The occupant came out, I was just about to go in when a lady appeared from nowhere and told me that she had been 'queuing ' for ages. I was a little bemused but I apologised and let her go first. I thought no more of it. When I eventually came out my DD told me that the lady , when getting to her seat had loudly asked her DH if he had seen that cheeky cow try to push in the queue in front of her and make her wait longer. So if I did not know that she was waiting(definitely not queuing) was I actually a cheeky cow even though I let her go first, or should I be psychic and have realised that it is a thing to queue in your seat.