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Lovesgood · 19/07/2019 22:41

Hello. Thought asking a bunch of smart ladies might help me out with this. Im dating a very inexperienced guy. He is gentle and willing to learn in bed, but Im not sure how to teach him. So Id like to give him a couple great books on the subject. Something like how to please a woman. Do you have any reckomendations please?
I know Im not bu, just posting for advice.
Thank you.

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Mammyloveswine · 19/07/2019 22:44

Would you not just do what comes naturally?? Guide his hands or tongue???

I never needed a book... pretty sure we all just learn through experience!

Rowenaravenclawsdiadem · 19/07/2019 22:44

Don’t give him a book, just show him what works for you.

Jimjamjong · 19/07/2019 22:46

There is a website called OMGyes, it's got interesting information (you pay a small fee and can then access it).

Lovesgood · 19/07/2019 22:48

The problem is, Im not very experienced myself. So its a bit like the blind trying to lead the blind...

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Vulpine · 19/07/2019 22:49

Oh come on. You cant learn that stuff from a book.

Lovesgood · 19/07/2019 22:55

I guess thats true. Just wanted some pointers from a good book.

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NoSauce · 19/07/2019 23:02

Google?

applepineapple · 19/07/2019 23:04

Belinda Blinked should do it for you...

www.amazon.co.uk/Belinda-Blinked-passion-business-removing-ebook/dp/B00UO7WOAS

colourlessgreenidea · 19/07/2019 23:10

Belinda Blinked should do it for you

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PinkFlowerFairy · 19/07/2019 23:11

I have wondered this in the past. It really isnt intuitive for my partner at all :(

SimplySteveRedux · 19/07/2019 23:16

OMGYes is actually a good call.

Mixed review but Ian Kerner's - "She Comes First" ain't. Ad.

taylorowmu · 19/07/2019 23:17

I would be careful he isn't offended by being gifted a book about how to please women.

Imagine if he were the one handing over a book Hmm

Mumtolittletorchers · 19/07/2019 23:28

Tell him what you want not give him a book that's just insulting

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