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To not understand what she wants?

8 replies

MouthFullofGum · 19/07/2019 19:49

Ex friend treated me like shit. Some examples -

  • Said she’d be at mine in an hour and then never showed and ignored my calls and texts checking that she was ok. She then uploaded a story to her Instagram the next morning as if nothing had happened.
  • Ditched me for a man she’d had one date with when we’d made plans. Kept pretending that she was on her way home.
  • Went for a weekend away and she didn’t have any money so this mug here had to pay for her food, drinks etc.

We came to blows and I said she was a shit friend and she had no remorse and then blocked my number.

Now 8 months later she has messaged me to “see if I was alright”

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MouthFullofGum · 19/07/2019 19:50

Wrong face sorry, I meant Confused

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PanamaPattie · 19/07/2019 19:57

Block. Ignore.

AuntyMarysBigRedPants · 19/07/2019 20:09

Who needs the drama, just block her, very, very childish of her

Anniegetyourgun · 19/07/2019 20:10

Do you actually care what she wants?

Mammajay · 19/07/2019 20:12

A user not a friend

drowningincustard · 19/07/2019 20:29

Ignore and block her

Rachelover40 · 19/07/2019 21:21

I wonder how old she was when she was behaving like a shit friend. I know not that much time has passed since then but it's amazing how some experiences make a person grow up.

Whether you bother with her again or not is entirely up to you. Have you missed her, are you interested in what has been going on? As long as she isn't your only friend and you have a decent social network, it wouldn't hurt you to respond and see how it goes. She might be sorry, who knows?

Chickychoccyegg · 19/07/2019 21:33

block block block!!!!
dont engage wirh her again, she was definitely a shit friend!

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