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to think 2 night sleepover is too much?

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teenageyears · 19/07/2019 16:28

14 yr old dd wants to stay another night at her pals. its the holidays and shes having fun, but am not sure. and dont want to set a precedence or shell be there all the time. mind you nothing going on here. bored ds on x box and grumpy husband due in soon. Grumpy husband says fri night is pizza and family film night and looks forward to it so guess i should get her. guess actually the question is how can i have more fun?! i want to be at a mates mucking about with music and make up. not making sodding pizza and forever cleaning. is that unreasonable?!

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TheHandsOfNeilBuchanan · 20/07/2019 09:37

How about he's a twat so doesn't get one? Also think your NC failed...

TheHandsOfNeilBuchanan · 20/07/2019 09:39

There's no fun because your husband sounds like a fun sponge. If you want a holiday book one with the DCs, he can come or not, I suspect you'd have a better time if he didn't

teenageyears · 20/07/2019 10:40

oh yes! Im crap at this :)
fun sponge is such a good name!
he is a twat, just trying to convince myself hes ok really.
thanks hands of.

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VladmirsPoutine · 20/07/2019 19:55

Why is your husband so grumpy and you seem resolved to this life?

I'd let your daughter stay for 2 nights. But your life sounds tedious. (Not trying to stick the boot in but just the way you describe it.)

aggh · 21/07/2019 01:42

Yes, Vladimir’s, it is! But working on it! Thanks guys x

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