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AIBU smell of weed

15 replies

Itswineoclocksomewhere · 02/06/2019 19:02

Ok I admit I did go a little batshit, next doors man child smokes weed all day long, before 9am some days. The smell is so overpowering. Tonight my 2 dcs were playing in the garden and I was In the living room with the door open, the smell suddenly hit me and my house absolutely stank. I lost my shit and shouted out that I felt sick and my dcs should not be stoned in their own back garden. This was met with 'shut up ffs' and 'why don't you shut your door' and a fair bit more abuse

Am I unreasonable to not have to shut my doors/Windows to avoid my neighbours anti social behaviour?

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Moominfan · 02/06/2019 19:05

Yanbu however I would have knocked on rather than shouted.

thesnapandfartisinfallible · 02/06/2019 19:08

Oh I'd put a fucking brick through. No patience for junkies.

Itswineoclocksomewhere · 02/06/2019 19:16

Me either "The" didn't help that his pregnant girlfriend hung out the window asking what my problem was. It's all the fucking time. They then had the audacity to say that I'd had a couple of glasses of wine in the garden in front of the children and that was worse Hmm

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DoneLikeAKipper · 02/06/2019 19:24

You think you have it bad? Our neighbour smokes something so heavy, it permeates though the walls upstairs, there’s no escaping it. I have no issues with weed smoking, people can do what they like to themselves, but I really wish they would fuck off from other people to do so.

RomanyQueen1 · 02/06/2019 19:27

If you have children and are drinking it's far worse than smoking if you don't have dc.

Where would you like them to smoke it, as you have nothing against it?
Unfortunately it does travel. If it is bothering you that much call The Police, it shouldn't come through walls, maybe he's growing it.

bbcessex · 02/06/2019 19:32

I really feel for you.

The smell of weed is bloody awful.

Having a couple of glasses of wine is no way near the same as smoking weed.

A couple of glasses of wine in the garden - who else is affected by that?

Smoking weed morning, noon and night...indicates wasted and wastER.

Itswineoclocksomewhere · 02/06/2019 19:32

How about in their house with the windows and doors shut as that is what has been suggested that I do?

Seriously me having a couple of glasses of wine in my garden is damaging my dcs. How?

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Neverender · 02/06/2019 19:37

I wouldn't be able to deal with that and I would tell them straight.

ilovesooty · 02/06/2019 19:50

Oh I'd put a fucking brick through

Yeah, sure you would. Hmm

Thisnamechanger · 02/06/2019 19:53

If you have children and are drinking it's far worse than smoking if you don't have dc

Wha? As long as OP isn't getting shitfaced how is her having a couple of jars in the evening worse than constantly bothering the neighborhood with bad smells?

thesnapandfartisinfallible · 02/06/2019 20:08

If my kids were breathing in drugs in their own home? Yeah, I would.

Mummyshark2019 · 02/06/2019 20:25

Call the police

SoyDora · 02/06/2019 20:29

Urgh it sounds like our neighbours. Very respectable middle class family, young adult son still living at home. His parents go away most weekends and he sits at the end of the garden with his friends smoking weed. 8.30am this morning. My three year old said ‘what’s that disgusting smell?’ as she was sat by our open living room window.
Oh yeah and I do occasionally drink wine in front of my DC. But as I’m not forcing them to inhale the fumes from it I’m not sure what the comparison is?

user1471590586 · 02/06/2019 21:03

With their attitude, I'd report them.

RandomComment · 02/06/2019 21:04

Get some rubber and burn it in your garden. See how they like it.

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