Not AIBU - not sure of the right thread page (sorry!)
The past year has been grounding for me. I've looked back at my teen and early 20 years and thought of the bad choices and shitty attitude I've had. I've been inconsiderate disrespectful rude negative and so on. I'm disgusted with myself really. Theres been times when I haven't been a good person. I've had the pleasure (grounding purposes only) of having these things done to me. I feel its helping me grow tremendously into a better person.
What has happened in your past that when you reflect on has made you think more clearly or helped shape a different direction or help make amends?