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To be pissed off and sack my cleaner

160 replies

Nightnight23 · 23/05/2019 20:55

Another cleaner related thread...

Background so as not to drip feed. Had this cleaner for a year, she is very reliable and competitively (but fairly) priced.
Had some issues as her cleaning is average to poor depending on whether I’m there or not. I try to be a good person to clean for - make regular cups of tea if I’m in, make sure everything is tidied away before etc so she only has to clean, during half terms I give her alterations etc to do from home of an evening as she has a young son and childcare is difficult in hols but that way she doesn’t lose out financially.

Issues are:
She brought her son without pre agreeing it with me, he then took a piece of tech with him, I hadn’t realised it had gone missing but she brought it round the next day laughing about it. I get that he’s a kid (10) but why should I have to worry about things being stolen when I’m employing a cleaner to make my life easier?

I pay her for 2 hours cleaning, I recently got a camera installed on the door. I don’t think she is aware but it’s not a secret as the unit is in the house and she would see it if she ever dusted the window sill (it’s mainly to track deliveries whilst I’m out but it notifies my phone when someone comes or goes as it points to the drive).

I have been out the past 3 weeks. The first week she did 1 hour 15 mins, I didn’t question it as I presumed it was a 1 off and she’d automatically make it up the following week.
The second week I was out she did 1 hour 5 mins, I questioned her and she said she did everything really quickly as she had another job to go on to but she’d make it up next time. Then last week she did an hour and five again. I messaged her at the weekend with a list of jobs to do if she finishes with half an hour or more to spare to make it up to the two hours. She replied that’s fine and she did two hours last week and would keep to two hours going forward. I know it’s a lie as the camera recorded her coming and going after just over an hour.

I genuinely wouldn’t mind if things were cleaned quickly and to a high standard but they’re not. So much basic stuff is missed.

Another issue (god this is so long sorry!) is I bulk buy large quantities of cleaning products as it’s cheaper to do so. I’ve found out she’s been refilling her bottles with my products each week. The price agreed is meant to include all her own cleaning materials. Not only is she using my products for my house (I could tolerate that) but it seems I’m also supplying her other clients cleaning products too as she refills a whole bottle each week.

Aibu to be pissed off with her? I feel she’s taking me for a total mug. We get on so nicely face to face but she clearly thinks I’m an idiot. We are not well off and I have a cleaner because I’m disabled so it is a massive luxury meant to make life easier. Hmm

OP posts:
glueandstick · 23/05/2019 20:58

You did the right thing.

Liverbird77 · 23/05/2019 20:59

Get rid. She is a cf.

IsabellaLinton · 23/05/2019 21:00

How awful! Get rid of her ASAP. She’s taking complete advantage of you - disgraceful behaviour on her part.

janet20 · 23/05/2019 21:00

Sounds like she's taking the piss, sack her and get a new one.

Shoxfordian · 23/05/2019 21:00

Have you sacked her? I'd have fired her for letting her kid steal from me. Wow.

queenqueenqueen · 23/05/2019 21:01

You are absolutely not BU. Definitely sack her

44PumpLane · 23/05/2019 21:02

She is actively defrauding you so YANBU at all

Tigerlilly17 · 23/05/2019 21:02

Get shut. You pay her to do a job and she is not fulfilling the agreements or meeting expected standards. I promise you would be amazed st the difference with a new cleaner from a proper company.

aidelmaidel · 23/05/2019 21:02

She's taking the piss, but you know that really.

Viviene · 23/05/2019 21:02

I am a terrible softie and even I would have sacked her.

TheHodgeoftheHedge · 23/05/2019 21:05

You actually have to ask?

Tubastraprash · 23/05/2019 21:07

She wouldn't have been back after laughing off her child stealing from me.

81Byerley · 23/05/2019 21:09

I was a cleaner. She's taking the piss. Replace her.

pearldeodorant · 23/05/2019 21:11

Absolutely sack her that is awful. I'd be so mad at all of the things she's done let alone them all in combo!

VanillaCoconutDove · 23/05/2019 21:16

I’m sorry you’ve had this, it’s really unpleasant the level of mistrust with someone in your home.

You should get rid and I wouddnt have any issue with letting people know why.

Fluffypyjamas · 23/05/2019 21:16

YANBU! I got angry just reading about the cheek of her. Please get rid!

Nightnight23 · 23/05/2019 21:16

God I’m glad I’m not being OTT. I think I’ve just felt sorry for her as she’s a single mother who always seems to be struggling in one way or another. I kept trying to give her benefit of the doubt and hoping things were one offs etc. She clearly taking the piss out of me. She’s due to come next week but it will be her last time. (I actually feel bad about getting rid despite the fact she clearly has zero respect for me as a person!)

OP posts:
NCforthis2019 · 23/05/2019 21:17

Why in gods name have you kept her for this long?!?!

LittleLongDog · 23/05/2019 21:17

She’s absolutely taking the piss!

Notnownotneverever · 23/05/2019 21:18

I’m not sure why you are even posting this in some ways. You just sack her. She is behaving awfully. I wouldn’t have waited as long as you have.

TheInvestigator · 23/05/2019 21:18

Message her now to cancel your contract with her. Don't wait and don't make excuses for her. She's not doing the job to a decent standard and she's stealing from you (doesn't matter that it's cleaning products; they aren't hers).

SandAndSea · 23/05/2019 21:18

She's got to go. I wouldn't skirt around this. She's stealing from you - products and money for hours not worked.

Horsemenoftheaclopalypse · 23/05/2019 21:19
Shock Def sack her
SandAndSea · 23/05/2019 21:19

Why is she coming again?

Smelborp · 23/05/2019 21:21

She doesn’t need to come back next week. Get rid wth immediate effect.

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