To want to do what I feel is best

[Thelonewolf]

For my own children without being judged!
Raising children is hard enough and we are all doing our best.

Of course we all want best for our children. YAnbu. but there are some basics related to health and lifestyle that are legal requirements.
What other parents think is mostly irrelevant though. I have a sister who thinks I am cruel because I don’t let my ds play violent video games.
Is there a specific issue?

No, I was just generalising. Obviously health related basics aside!

Do you feel someone is judging you?

You're not the Christian complaining about finding contraception in teen DDs room on the other thread are you?

😅😅😅 no

Yes, judging parents isn't that useful.
That said I reckon most people do it from time to time.
I judge people who don't vaccinate their dc when there is no medical reason not to for example.