Really considering having another baby, but our boys are now 5 and 10. Is this selfish and shortsighted? Worried about our eldest in particular. He’s a sensitive kid, and I’m worried about his move up to secondary school next year without throwing a baby (plus baby brain and general sleep deprivation related ratty behaviour on my part) into the mix. Our age gap between the two DCs is big as it is! I’d be doing school runs at the same primary school for eleventy billion years 
Not to mention back to nappies and high chair wiping and sleepless nights. But still, a squishy new baby....
AIBU to give in to the ovaries?