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Madeaminnieme · 25/04/2019 20:45

Sorry if this sounds like a rant but I'm at breaking point.

I work four days a week, have 2 young children and studying a uni degree. Recently, we have had a few issues with a couple of companies (bank issues and energy supplier) which I battled with and won the arguments. They were big complaints so took months and lots of emails/calls.
I am now at a point in my studying where there's some big assignments and an exam in a few weeks. Today a letter came in from the bank because someone didn't update the account properly so back to the start of a familiar battle.
I asked DH to take over this one as feel exhausted with it all and not sleeping properly because of uni pressure. I will admit I let my uni work fall behind a fair bit after motivation seemed to disappear ( I think they are in the loft with the Christmas decorations)
Cue me probably sounding grumpy but getting my head ripped off by DH who said told he would "bloody deal with it".
I told him I felt he was shouting a bit at me whereas my voice was probably louder at exasperation so asked that he didn't speak to me that way. I am quite an emotional person at the best of times but with lack of sleep and stress this has made me break.
AIBU for asking for the support and understanding while I feel the pressure for wanting to do well at my uni work?

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