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AIBU?

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Sister’s boyfriend

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Xerdna · 16/04/2019 18:43

NC as sensitive

So Dsis has been seeing someone for a year and tbh he generally gives me a bit of a bad feeling - bit smarmy and over familiar IYSWIM. A little touchy-feely (although not what you’d deem inappropriate).

He’s very ostentatious with money, designer brands, sports car. Now here is the thing, he’s extremely vague about what he does for a living but the best I can gauge is he’s some kind of life coach due to all his instagram posts about living the dream, ‘acing his goals’, giving up the 9-5 etc. Odd mention of millionaire lifestyle. Whole thing sounds a bit MLM from what I can see, he is looking for new clients all the time to show them the secrets to his success.

Sis seems happy so it doesn’t feel appropriate to question her (the few comments I’ve made have been brushed off) but my spidey senses are going off. She is a high earner herself but very naive and I am worried she’s with a bit of a chancer. So AIBU to be concerned ??

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CripsSandwiches · 16/04/2019 18:58

Hmmm It does sound a bit dodgy. Do you socialise with him? Can you just straight up ask him what he does? Perhaps feign interest in becoming a convert to his amazing lifestyle.

Xerdna · 16/04/2019 19:07

No just see him at family stuff
Don’t feel can feign interest as dsis knows I’m slightly dubious already I think

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