I told DH I didn't want anything except a card, cup of tea, and a nice day out with our toddler. But DH isn't listening and hasn't actually planned anything. His boss asked us both to lunch on Sunday, and we both didn't realise until yesterday that it would fall on Mother's Day, so that's how we're spending our day. He also keeps running gift ideas by me, which is super sweet but if he was set on the idea then why not surprise me? As it is, it's now too late to get it for Sunday (he told me). He's either set me up for a big surprise or a big telegraphed disappointment.