DH and I went to a gig by a singer I really like. I booked it and DH agreed to come. For info, I often go to things he has chosen and booked. We go out quite a lot.
He has started a new job quite recently and has a terrible commute, getting up at 6am. The gig was standing only and he was getting really tired. I could see he was flagging at about 10pm. I asked if he wanted to go home and he looked a bit weary but said no it's ok.
It came to the encore and the singer still hadn't played her big hit, which as a fan, I really wanted to hear. Never seen her live before, and not particularly likely to again. DH said he'd had enough and wanted to go home at the start of the encore. I said that's fine, I will see you at home. We live 10 minutes walk away.
I just said don't worry, you go home, I'll stay and then everyone's happy. He was really grumpy with me and said I don't consider him important, don't care about him etc for not wanting to go home with him. So he went home and I stayed til the end.
This was yesterday. We did not speak when I got home. We are now sitting not speaking (very mature).
I am not inclined to apologise, I really wanted to listen to the end of the show (which was only about 5-10 minutes later) and listen to the final song, which was the biggest hit of this singer.
So who is BU?