About my friend talking to me about this

[fauxhuman]

This sounds so ridiculous but my friend was talking to me about her DS13 watching porn. She wanted some advice and I found it difficult to give it as I have strong opinions about this. When I was 8-11 a teenager tried out his porn stuff on me and it was horrible.

I really don't want to talk about this with her but I don't want to tell her why. The thing is she is bringing it up every time I see her! I find it triggering and can't seem to move away from that.

I can't avoid her either as I see her every day.

Help

Maybe a simple "i'm sorry i don't think i'm the right person to speak to about this. Have you thought about a school safeguarding person or some similiarly trained adult with a better idea of how you can approach this with your son." Something along those lines?