Hi all, I have DS nearly 8 with my ex. We split when he was tiny. We’ve always had his toys here and his toys at daddy’s unless it’s something particularly special he may bring it back here.
So the ex moved in with his gf and their baby a while ago and every week he’s dropping Ds’s toys off with him. The fuck?? I’ve never seen these toys and they don’t belong to us. Some weeks it is stuff that DS plays with which is bad enough as we have no room and he has toys here. But this week it was old toys. A massive black bag of old toys that are filthy dirty (obviously been stored away in a shed). I asked why he brought them over and he said you might want them. Why would I want them? Now DS is wanting to keep all his old dirty toys and DD wants to play with the crap!
They have so many toys here and we really don’t need anymore. It’s all cheap and cheap flimsy.
He also buys him a toy every week (he see him for a few hours a week and tries to buy his love rather than spend time with him).
Aibu?