Apologies if my post doesn’t come across brilliantly. I struggle putting things in words (which has been picked up a lot on here!).
Basically I am largely unliked in my work place. I have aspergers but nobody knows this so they simply see me as a bit of an odd person. I accept that, they don’t know the reason behind it so I don’t hold anything against them for that.
I do however have 1 colleague I’m friendly with. We message each other frequently, laugh lots, tag each other in Facebook stuff and have been out together a few times. She tells me all about her problems and as I said, rings me regularly.
Last week I sensed a change in her. She ignored every message I sent her and when she called me from work she was very “official” and not at all friendly like she normally is. Fair enough, she was at work.
We had planned to go out yesterday however, I’d heard nothing from her so text her to ask if we were still meeting up. She replied saying she felt unwell and so, no, fair enough. She did however ask if I could go out today instead. She sounded very upbeat about it and asked me to “please come” as we could have a laugh and a good chat. I said that was great, I’d see her today. She said she would ring me to arrange a time.
So today, no such phone call arrived. I’ve not heard from her at all and the time has come and gone. No excuses, no reasoning ... just, nothing.
Obviously, due to my aspergers I struggle reading social cues but I do guess. AIBU to think that for whatever reason, we’re no longer friends?