I got divorced 7 years ago. Financial and maintenance etc were ordered on an agreed order.
At the time ex had just got himself fired and had no money so the order is along the lines of the lowest band of child maintenance phrases as a percentbof what he has coming in (hopefully that makes sense)
For the last 6 years he has paid a maintenance of £95 a month.
He’s worked for about 5.5 of those years first in one low paid job so I left it alone but now he’s in a job that I learnt the other day is actually more skilled. Something to do with electrical.
He won’t tell me what but has taken on paying for one of our sons hobbies every term.
Would it be unreasonable to try to find out? How would I find out? Should I rock the boat or just leave it alone? Thoughts?