Aibu to be a bit 🤔 sw stuff

[justmakemeacuppa]

Been going to slimming world and lost 3st. Paid my money all happy. Hit my target which I’m happy. Had a few weeks off which was nice not going to group trying to fit it in around kids activities. Went back and was a little over target which was fine had my grace week. Sw woman changed the dates of the group and a date given was easier for me as dd had activities close by. Put my card in no charge as was in grace week, was over target so have to pay next week no problem happy to pay. She then made me pay that day(grace week)and had to put my card in again. All I can think is because she moved the days I was In the next week as it would be a week and a day. She set these days so surely this is my grace week and I haven’t missed a week? I’m changing classes as I got weighed in a corridor the other woman there was told my weight and target weight and was hardly private. No motivation left for it after this. Went home and ate cake! Do they stop motivating you once you hit target to keep getting the money?

I found SW groups varied wildly in quality. It really depends who is running it and how many people are there.

I had a similar experience to you that I initially hit my target and then felt a drop in service when I was just maintaining. I completely stopped going and unfortunately put some weight back on.

Sorry, I know this isn't advice, just letting you know that you're not alone in this experience...

I am thinking of not bothering, I know when I’m being bad and know the syns. I did enjoy seeing people there but always felt she’d cut me off when talking and had her favourites mainly the ones willing to run the group and basically do the hard work for her. I came to chill and have an hour off running about, not about to start doing her work and pay for the privilege. I saw going to group a chance to sit for an hour and drink a hot drink.