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About sex

12 replies

Worzilgummidge · 26/01/2019 00:33

I'm posting for traffic.
I am confused about the lack of good sex lately with my dp.
Early days where good but now he has problems getting a full er and sometimes difficulty keeping it.
He works hard and does have some stress in his life and dies get very tired but I'm feeling frustrated and confused.
I mean what does it mean when a man kisses you touches you and gets hard and you feel pressing against you then you initiate sex and he says no sorry my legs are aching sorry if tmi but feeling upset.

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Worzilgummidge · 26/01/2019 00:34

I meant pressing it against you. He is now fast asleep and I'm here feeling depressed.

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Fatasfook · 26/01/2019 00:38

You need to talk to him about this. We can only guess

RuLu · 26/01/2019 00:40

🥕🍠🍇
Get naked on the living room floor!

SleepingStandingUp · 26/01/2019 00:42

It means he enjoyed a snog but he's tired??

Talk to him about it when you're both fully dressed and sex isn't an option. Stress can affect libido and performance, as can tiredness

Worzilgummidge · 26/01/2019 00:44

He touches me there deliberately presses it against me then says no my legs are aching Really honestly I don't know

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Worzilgummidge · 26/01/2019 00:45

And he placed my hand on it

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Worzilgummidge · 26/01/2019 00:45

Next time maybe I will ignore

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BusySnipingOnCallOfDuty · 26/01/2019 00:51

My sex life has disappeared. It was meant to perk up when we moved in together. It's left me sad. I understand he's been acclimatising to living with me and his step kids. But I need intimacy with him.

Worzilgummidge · 26/01/2019 00:58

What happens to them busy

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Worzilgummidge · 26/01/2019 01:01

I appreciate that my dp works really hard and he gets very tired but God I miss the decent sex we used to have.
I am trying to be patient as I know there is more to a relationship than sex.
He still cuddles and kisses and says he loves me.

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SleepingStandingUp · 26/01/2019 01:09

Just talk to him.

LuggsaysNotaWomen · 26/01/2019 01:16

Could be all sorts that is nothing to do with you.

If it is a persistent problem then he needs to see a doctor because it could be a symptom of a serious health condition. Talk to him.

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