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Slight confrontation with dog owner today

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ReecesPeaces · 06/01/2019 21:41

DH and I do not own a dog but every couple of weeks we will take a friend's dog for a walk in the local countryside. She is a gorgeous, gentle dog and very well trained. A small cockapoo. The owners encourage us to let her off the lead when she is out and away from roads etc and most of the other local dog owners do the same.

Today we were walking through the countryside area and there were plenty of other people there, most had dogs and most dogs were off the lead. The dog we walk generally approaches other dogs her size in a friendly playful way and shies away from bigger dogs, she usually jumps up at me of a big dog comes near and I scoop her up and we carry on. Anyway we saw a woman with four dogs approaching, three small ones and one rottweiler. I was wary of the rottweiler as a family member used to have one which was very aggressive. All of this woman's dogs were off the lead.

Before I could get our dog on the lead she ran up to the smaller ones who started growling and chasing her aggressively. All four dogs then started chasing ours round and round, the Rottweiler wasn't being aggressive but two of the smaller ones were and trying to bite our dog (at this point the owner of he other dogs was going "it's fine it's fine) who ran up to me and thankfully I managed to pick her up and the other dogs then lost interest.

The owner started shouting at me and DH slightly aggressively saying "I said it was fine!" We hadn't said anything at all at this point we had just been calling our dog to us. The owner was angry we had picked ours up and kept saying "I told you it was fine! That's the worst thing you can do to pick a dog up in that situation, I'm an expert!" We walked away as I just wanted to get away from her and thought she was being confrontational.

Is this the norm for dog walking in public spaces or was this woman in the wrong? It puts me off getting a dog permanently as there was a moment when I really felt something awful could have happened.

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Justkeepsmiling12 · 06/01/2019 21:44

If she was an expert then her dogs would be better trained and not chasing and trying to bite another dog.

SpoonBlender · 06/01/2019 21:45

She's an idiot, and the type who gives dog owners a bad name.

Wordthe · 06/01/2019 21:56

That sounds very upsetting

Beautifulsunshine · 06/01/2019 22:12

She should call her dogs back but it’s not a good idea to pick them up as that usually encourages the other dog to jump up at you. Best to call your dog back and stand in front of it and tell the other dog no or back in a firm voice.

slashlover · 06/01/2019 22:21

The dog we walk generally approaches other dogs her size in a friendly playful way

Before I could get our dog on the lead she ran up to the smaller ones

YABU if the dog your walking approaches other, unknown dogs.

Santaclarita · 06/01/2019 22:23

The dog you had shouldn't be running up to unknown dogs randomly. Both of you were to blame here.

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