Who is BU, me or DH?

[AngeloMysterioso]

Just had a row with DH- we’re going to his parents today for non-Christmas Day as we’ll be at my DMs on Tuesday.

He said he wanted to leave by half 10. He started getting pissed off with me for not being ready to go at 10:12, and was completely pissed off when I was ready to go at 10:24, saying he’s sick of getting ready and having to wait around for me, it wouldn’t kill me to get ready earlier etc etc.

The way I see it, he said he wanted to leave by half 10, I was ready to leave by half 10 and we were indeed out the door before half 10, therefore I have done nothing wrong and he has absolutely no reason to be in a piss with me.

Who is BU?

He is.

You husband is vv unreasonable.

Seems like he was in a mood and just wanted a reason to have a go at you.

Him, obviously

YANBU. he sounds horrible

He is wrong.

Does he really want to go?

He is.

He is. Does he like going to his mum's? My husband and I are sometimes snippy with eachother before visiting his mum, and the prospect of it stresses us both out a little.

He is.

Aside from the fact you were on time, it was a visit to family not an appointment to see your MP. Does he often get extreme anxiety over punctuality? I do, but realise it's my issue so Ive trained myself not to inflict it on others.

Obvs him!

He is. Does he get on with his family? It sounds like he was already wound up.

He is. Tell him to behave like an adult and have a nice day at his parents.
If he doesn't tell him to put his pissy mood where the sun doesn't shine or he ll wonder what day it is.

He is.

Yup; your DH. He said 10:30, you were ready by then.

If you set the time for half 10 then he is being unreasonable. Unless he thought 10?

How often does this happen that you even need to ask?!

Of course he is!

Was he meaning ‘by 10.30 latest’ and you thought that meant ‘at 10.30’?

10:24 is earlier than 10:30 so your h is unreasonable. If he wanted to leave at 10:14 then he should have told you that last night

He's being unreasonable.

We were both in a perfectly happy mood before that- I could tell by the way he was speaking to me at 10 past 10that he was in a mood about something, I asked if it was because I wasn’t ready to go yet, he said “little bit”.