DD is 1, and my ex (her dad) is driving me insane. He has aspergers, and this is definitely not a hate thread in the slightest, however any achievement DD makes he tells me "that's a sign of ASD" "Shes going to have ASD" etc. HV has said there's no current signs of ASD, but he won't let it go. But he says because she walked and talked early, and that she's got an aversion to food, she's definitely got it.
Don't get me wrong I will do anything I can to support DD if she is on the spectrum, but every positive thing about her, he tells me it was a sign when he was little. Any advice on this would be great because I'm confused and he keeps making out that it's this terrible thing and I just don't get it...