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to think it's too early to share financial problems

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DietRite · 28/11/2018 00:16

or money woes during the early phase of dating?

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CryptoFascist · 28/11/2018 00:18

Depends on the context. If they're saying they can't afford to go out until payday, fair enough. If they're spinning a yarn hoping to tug on your heart and purse strings, not so good.

DietRite · 28/11/2018 00:21

He's not really asking for money. Just saying for example, that he's stressed when he looks at his bank account. Or that he has no money to go see a movie. Something like that.

But then he goes to see a movie anyway.

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Itsnotadonedeal · 28/11/2018 00:23

Sounds like a keeper

Vitalogy · 28/11/2018 00:24

I think you're right OP. Watch for the hinting to borrow money to start.

Vitalogy · 28/11/2018 00:26

*in fact that already sounds like hinting.

BonnieandHyde · 28/11/2018 00:40

Run. Like. The. Wind.

TanteRose · 28/11/2018 00:46

What Bonnie said.
Don’t wait until he’s got you hooked...

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