Me and DP are usually on pretty good terms, we occasionally have arguments over petty stuff, don't speak for a few hours and then we're friends again.
Yesterday I worked a long shift, 7am till 10pm, I'd agreed to pick DP and two mates up at 2am. He was going round to his mates for a drink and wasn't sure if they were going out or not, so agreed to text me and let me know the plans. By 1am I'd not heard anything and rang him, he was absolutely smashed and after five minutes of incoherent rambling I got that he was in town. So I told him I was coming to get him. I got there about half 1 this morning and found him stumbling around outside a kebab shop, alone. Put him into my car and waited for his mates, dropped them off and took him home. He could tell I was annoyed but I told him I'd speak to him in the morning and went to bed. He called me a few names and was generally a bit nasty but I ignored him.
Today I'm still a bit angry, he apologised this morning but he can't remember anything and doesn't know what he's apologising for. I feel like he hasn't taken me seriously and has been trying to laugh it off. Now he's in a grump with me for not 'changing the record' and 'going on' but I can't help still being annoyed and feel like I'm owed a decent apology and shouldn't have to apologise for being annoyed? Or AIBU??