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AIBU to ask for your support and good vibes?

27 replies

Bamchicabaawaa · 24/11/2018 09:45

Morning all. I just wondered if I could ask you for some support. I don’t have many people I can ask IRL and this week has the potential to be life changing for us.

DH and I are currently living of a single salary on min wage since he was made redundant and we live in rental accommodation and I was very poorly during my pregnancy which I couldn’t carry to term lost in the last week of 2nd trimester and we’ve just had a massive mare but we are keeping on.

Anyway fast forward to now. DH had an interview yesterday and I have one next week, we should both find out by next Friday, if we have jobs.
I am so excited and I want it so desperately- my salary would double and Dh’s wouldn’t be far behind. We could buy within the year and even afford fertility treatment if we were frugal. I just need talking down. Because I can’t stop thinking about how phenomenal our lives could be.

I am aware this likely makes no sense but if you have read it thanks so so much.

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Bananapancake · 24/11/2018 10:40

Keeping my fingers crossed for you 💖 what at hard and exhausting time you’ve had x

sparklepops123 · 24/11/2018 17:18

Good luck, I hope it all works out for you both 💐

sandandc · 24/11/2018 17:20

Good vibes from my home to yours.

BMW6 · 24/11/2018 18:38

Sending good vibes from here OP

loubluee · 24/11/2018 20:11

Good luck!!! Think positive thoughts. If it doesn’t work out, do ask for feedback, and work on it.

Armadillostoes · 24/11/2018 20:15

Good good luck and well done!!! I hope that this turns out to be the beginning of a great new chapter.

Strongmummy · 24/11/2018 20:22

I’m sending positive vibes to you x

concretesieve · 24/11/2018 20:37

Good luck and best wishes. Many good vibes coming your way Flowers

Kintan · 24/11/2018 20:40

🤞🤞🤞

Bamchicabaawaa · 24/11/2018 20:54

Thank you so much. ❤️💖

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Atalune · 24/11/2018 20:55

Good vibes!!!

And best of luck to you both!

DeRigueurMortis · 24/11/2018 22:21

Good luck Thanks

Neapolitanicecream · 24/11/2018 22:33

Good luck I’m excited for you both but don’t stop looking until u’ve Got the contract in hand xxx

Bamchicabaawaa · 26/11/2018 05:07

It’s interview day. I’m feeling very nervous.
I need to get the ironing board out without waking everyone up!
Wish me luck!!

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Romanmonkey · 26/11/2018 05:08

Best of luck Flowers hope it goes really well!

Calphurnia · 26/11/2018 05:10

Good luck! Glitterball

BlackBeltInChildWrangling · 26/11/2018 05:14

Sock it to 'em, OP 🍀

sparklepops123 · 26/11/2018 06:01

Good luck 💐

ALemonyPea · 26/11/2018 06:04

Best of luck 💐

Bamchicabaawaa · 26/11/2018 08:52

Thank you all ❤️
I’ve got my suit on, my record of achievement is in my bag. I just need to finish my coffee and I’m off! 🤞🤞🤞

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Bamchicabaawaa · 26/11/2018 09:38

I’m here! Gosh. I’m nervous

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BlackBeltInChildWrangling · 26/11/2018 09:41

Remember to breathe Wink

Lemond1fficult · 26/11/2018 10:48

Hope it went well, OP.

All the positivity for you. Smile

sparklepops123 · 26/11/2018 13:42

How did it go?

Bamchicabaawaa · 26/11/2018 17:09

I feel like it went well, they were really interested in my past experience and things.
I’m not sure I am going to get the post I went for though, there was an underlying tone of we really want you for skills X Y Z as opposed to qualifications ABC (it’s a job you need a professional qualification for) so who knows - only time will tell! Hopefully I’ll know tomorrow x

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