Our dog was going mad in the garden for ages tonight so dh went out with a torch to investigate only to find him playing with a live Crayfish. We didn't know what to do with it so knocked on a few doors only to discover it belonged to ndn who has been catching them at our local country park and putting them in pots and eating them - apparently they are some kind of imported thing that is destroying other things that live in the lake. neighbour came round to collect the crayfish and was going on about them. I wasn't really interested I just wanted it gone. Neighbour then returns half an hour later with cooked crayfish telling us that he had boiled it alive, and even though it was a horrible looking thing pincing away with its pincers in the bucket we caught it in I feel really upset upset that he did this . I mean wtf. I have never eaten crayfish in my life as have always felt it to be cruel. Just feel like he's ruined my sunday evening really. Dog is still going mad convinced its still out there and diving in the bushes and bringing in mud everywhere. AIBU to be upset over this ?