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to not want dp to have the day off?

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goldenwings · 19/06/2007 19:34

ok i know i ranted the other day about dp not having weekends off but.....

my hospital appointment for my ovarian cyst check up is on friday morning at 9:40am. dp is coming with me and i told him to go back to work afterwards.

anyway hes determined to have the day off saying we can spend time together. i dont want him to have the day off because one hes moaning about moaning and two weekday off days affect holiday days which he made need if i have to have an op plus i had intended on spending the day with my mum.

i know hes worried but its just a routine appointment so we can see whats what and if anything needs to be done am i being ungrateful because he wants a day off? oh and it doesnt help that hes been googling about ovarian cysts either which has worried him.

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DeviousDaffodil · 19/06/2007 19:36

CAn't he make his own decision?

goldenwings · 19/06/2007 19:42

well he can but if he takes this weekday off it means one less day of him being at home if i need him to be if i have to have an op like last time.

ive told him to have sunday off and we can go for a picnic or something.

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