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My daughter contact with her dad

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Wren28 · 06/11/2018 12:47

So my daughter is 14 months and me and her dad split last January, he shock and shouted in his daughters face that’s why I left him, he had supervised contact at a contact centre with her because of what he did to her and what he did to me, he did 3 months of it and then it stopped he started to see my daughter at my flat while I was here for 4 hours a week which was more than contact centre the relationship between him and her got better and he started seeing her 14 hours a week! We had set days he would see her Tuesday and Friday one week and Tuesday and Saturday the week after, so this week he was meant to see her Tuesday and Friday but he didn’t want to see her Friday because it’s his girlfriend day off so I said well that the agreed day you see her, he called me so many nasty names and put the phone down... next morning he called the contact centre that we used to go to do this handover thing where he pays to pick her up from there take her out for the day then drop her off again.... he still thinks I’m in the wrong and I’m a bad person, I am I?

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SnuggyBuggy · 06/11/2018 12:48

You aren't a bad person OP

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 06/11/2018 12:49

No, you're not a bad person. He sounds like an arsehole.

PinkHeart5914 · 06/11/2018 12:53

No your not a bad person but I do think for the odd one off changing the day or missing a day is fine. May come a time when even you need to change the day or miss a day for one reason or other

My older sister and her ex often change the days each is seeing the dc for things like going away, new partner had a rare day off etc. So I don’t think it’s unusual at all

Wren28 · 06/11/2018 12:58

The reason why I didn’t change the day was as because he wanted the Saturday but I had all ready made plans with family....

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Wren28 · 06/11/2018 13:00

He was more than welcome to miss seeing our daughter on that day, just I was busy Saturday with my daughter

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