Are there signs you should notice that a partner won’t cope practically well with having kids? I guess who can know, right?
I don’t mean emotional/financial stability. More when a person doesn’t like changes to routine, lack of sleep
My partner has to work in a different place sometimes and get up earlier, it feels like a bit of a drama when outside the usual comfort zone in basic details. This makes me think there would be more of a struggle than with someone more adaptable
Are there any red flags you wish you had seen more clearly or did it work out in the end?