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AIBU?

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Am I being rude?

10 replies

EvangelineTheStar · 03/11/2018 10:44

I'm in a cafe, on my own. About to get my hair done but have popped in for a coffee. As I'm by myself, I'm listening to music on my phone ( with ear phones) and MNing.
The lady just brought my coffee over and I took my ear phones out and thanked her. As I put the back in, i just over heard the lady behind me tutting to her friend about it being rude to have earphones in!!
No one else can hear it, I'm on my own and I took them out the say thank you... AIBU?!

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Solenti · 03/11/2018 10:45

Not at all. Put her headphones back in and ignore.

Gileswithachainsaw · 03/11/2018 10:45

Yanbu

How odd

klondike555 · 03/11/2018 10:47

I'd think you were rude if you DIDN'T have them in! No one should be forced to listen to noise from other peoples' devices.

Alfie190 · 03/11/2018 10:47

If you are sure nobody else can hear, then it is fine.

Catspyjamazzzz · 03/11/2018 10:48

I get this all the time. Often I go for a walk with headphones- it’s a bit of private time.
The number of older people who seem offended when you aren’t even interacting with them is ridiculous.

TheGoogleMum · 03/11/2018 10:48

Yanbu. I've been told off for listening to music through earphones on the bus before though. Some people are just miserable

Dancer12345 · 03/11/2018 10:50

I’m doing the opposite to you - have just had my hair done and am now sitting in a cafe on my own having a cuppa!

I don’t think that’s rude at all. Keep listening to your music!

EvangelineTheStar · 03/11/2018 10:50

I'm positive no one can hear it. I'm listening to Josh Groban I'm so cool so it's not exactly banging Dub Step

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DeathyMcDeathStarFace · 03/11/2018 11:08

Remove your earphones, turn your music up and see how long it takes her to tut and complain about the music.

Dancer12345 · 04/11/2018 22:18

I love Josh Groban!

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